shareasimage (8)


Shirley Henderson AKA Sher Jun 19, 2015. 9:54 AM

There’s a Mexican saying “the one who searches, finds”. As humans, we crave consistency, to have a routine in our lives is a healing process. Humans are animals of habits. When a person is getting rehabilitated from drug use, the first thing required to do, is to gain a set of positive habits to gain as much as consistency in his daily activities. Routines give our brains peace and relaxation, we feel safe because there are no surprises, here is where I live, this is my family, this is my job, this are my things, everything is fine. Certainty give us self-esteem and reassurance, when we’re away from home because we know were we belong, who we belong to, and where is our place in this world.

Therefore, after reviewing all these variables, it is easy to proceed to find deception in their absence.

Why? Because we know where we supposed to be along with the ones who are important to us, and what they supposed to be doing. In statistics it would be easier to find those recurring behaviors in a graphic chart people don’t change drastically, or without a reason.

We don’t have to know the answer, for that question at the moment when detecting deception, that will be a consecutive task. Nevertheless, one must be brave when searching, for the truth, because you might find something you might not like. Jack Nicholson’s says “you can handle the truth”.

The reaction when finding the truth and when unfortunately deception, has many faces, can be in the form of denial, can be in the form of anger, can be in the form of withdrawal, even violence. Every person is different. This is why we have a responsibility to act with care, to gain as much as evidence as we can to back up our case and to be brave enough to move forward. Life goes on.

Select a Donation Option (USD)

Enter Donation Amount (USD)

Sello oficial de PayPal


sherlock holmes movie pic


“Debemos buscar la coherencia. Donde hay una necesidad de que debemos sospechar el engaño.” – Sherlock Holms El problema del puente de Thor (1922)

Hay un dicho mexicano “el que busca, encuentra”. Como seres humanos, que ansían consistencia, tener una rutina en nuestra vida es un proceso de curación. Los seres humanos somos animales de hábitos. Cuando una persona se está rehabilitado por el uso de drogas, lo primero que se requiere para hacer, es obtener un conjunto de hábitos positivos, para obtener la coherencia en sus actividades diarias. Rutinas dan a nuestro cerebro la paz y la relajación, nos sentimos seguros porque no hay sorpresas, aquí es donde vivo, esta es mi familia, este es mi trabajo, estas son mis cosas, todo está bien. La certeza nos da autoestima y confianza, cuando estamos fuera de casa porque sabemos en donde pertenecemos, a quienes pertenecemos, y donde es nuestro lugar en este mundo.

Por lo tanto, después de revisar todas estas variables, es fácil proceder a encontrar el engaño en su ausencia.

¿Por qué? Porque sabemos donde se supone que tenemos que estar, junto con los que son importantes para nosotros, y lo que se supone que deben de hacer. En las estadísticas sería más fácil para encontrar aquellos comportamientos que se repiten en una carta gráfica por que las personas no cambian drásticamente, o sin una razón.

No tenemos que saber la respuesta, en el momento presiso en la detección de engaño, eso será una tarea consecutiva. Sin embargo, hay que ser valiente en la búsqueda, de la verdad, porque usted podría encontrar algo que no le gusta. Jack Nicholson dice “usted no puede manejar la verdad”.

La reacción al enterarse de la verdad y cuando lamentablemente engaño, tiene muchas caras, puede ser en forma de negación, puede ser en forma de ira, puede ser en la forma de retiro, incluso de violencia. Cada persona es diferente. Es por eso que tenemos la responsabilidad de actuar con cuidado, juntar la evidencia que podamos para establecer con seguridad nuestro caso y que seamos lo suficientemente valientes como para seguir adelante. La vida sigue.

elementary picSherlock series 1-3


Go to Sher’s youtube channel    Sher’s podcast in iTunes

20 thoughts on “Consistency vs deception

  1. Excellent, what a blog it is! This weblog provides useful facts to
    us, keep it up.

  2. Great work! That is the kind of information that are meant to be shared around the web.
    Shame on the seek engines for now not positioning this put up
    Thanks =)

  3. I really like your blog.. very nice colors & theme.

    Did you make this website yourself or did you hire someone to do it for
    you? Plz reply as I’m looking to create my
    own blog and would like to find out where u got this from.
    thank you

  4. When someone writes an piece of writing he/she maintains the idea
    of a user in his/her brain that how a user can be aware of it.
    Thus that’s why this piece of writing is great. Thanks!

  5. Howdy! I know this is kinda off topic but I was wondering if you knew where I
    could find a captcha plugin for my comment form?
    I’m using the same blog platform as yours and I’m having difficulty finding
    one? Thanks a lot!

  6. Excellent post however , I was wanting to know if you could write a litte more on this subject?
    I’d be very grateful if you could elaborate a little
    bit further. Bless you!

  7. I’m gone to tell my little brother, that he should also
    visit this website on regular basis to get updated from most up-to-date news.

  8. I was recommended this website by my cousin. I’m not sure whether this post is written by him as no one else know such detailed about
    my problem. You are amazing! Thanks!

    1. Hi DeandreaERoscup
      Say thanks to your cousin to bring you here with us.

  9. The time proved totally unfavorable for my career hopes, there are two sliders, you determine
    the total amount you need to borrow and the amount of time you wish to borrow over.

  10. I have read so many articles or reviews on the topic of the blogger lovers
    however this article is really a pleasant article,
    keep it up.

  11. continuously i used to read smaller content that
    as well clear their motive, and that is also happening with
    this post which I am reading here.

  12. Undeniably believe that which you said. Your favorite reason appeared to be on the internet
    the easiest thing to be aware of. I say to you, I definitely get
    annoyed while people think about worries that they just
    don’t know about. You managed to hit the nail upon the top and also defined out the
    whole thing without having side-effects , people can take a signal.

    Will probably be back to get more. Thanks

  13. My brother recommended I might like this blog. He was entirely right.
    This post truly made my day. You cann’t imagine just how much time I had
    spent for this information! Thanks!

  14. I’m more than happy to discover this web site.
    I want to to thank you for ones time for this fantastic read!!

    I definitely enjoyed every part of it and i also have you bookmarked to look at new information on your web site.

  15. Hello There. I discovered your blog the usage of msn. This is an incredibly well written article.
    I am going to be certain to bookmark it and return to learn extra of your useful information. Many thanks for that post.
    I’ll certainly comeback.

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *