Author Shirley Henderson AKA Sher july 04, 2020
The Exodus of the Quarantine Lovers by Shirley Henderson.
Hello everybody this is Shirley Henderson from sherwork.com and today
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The exodus of the quarantine lovers by Shirley Henderson
Alright, guys let’s get started. Well, from the beginning of the quarantine
Well, from the beginning of the quarantine
I wrote an article that says be aware of
what’s gonna happen with the
quarantine you’re gonna get played if you
start texting with someone that you
don’t know and then you make contact in those
applications. Well, much of that did happen and now a lot of people
are crying on their bedrooms they’re
unable to get out of bed absolutely
in depression and heartbroken because
they open up entirely like in the most
vulnerable time of their existence on
the quarantine of COVID19 the time when everybody
is dying outside and they
were finding some type of refuge on
somebody’s texting where they were imagining
a future life together that never
happened because at the end of the
quarantine as we are seeing as we’re witnessing how many of
you got played I cannot tell you how
many times because we don’t have the
data but the person that you care the
most
ghosted you like you never been ghosted
before. You don’t understand why they’re
not replying to you, why they’re not even
given
an explanation of why you don’t deserve a
a line that says you’re not enough saying, I don’t
want to talk to you anymore I don’t want- please stop
calling me!
You don’t even deserve that right now
and that is why your sense of anger it’s
from 0 from before quarantine and
COVID19 to 10 post quarantine. This is the outcome
that I am afraid of before people were
afraid of open up their hearts and get
into relationships because of fear of
getting hurt and these people that open
their hearts in the most vulnerable time
which was during quarantine for COVID19 -2020
the biggest pandemic of all times on our
lifetime and they are getting ghosted,
they’re getting rejected, and they’re getting
abandoned. All those feelings are the
bitterness, the pain, that scare, the fear
whatever these people will
become more bitter and they will not give a
chance to love in the future. Do we
understand this conversation? So, what is
going to happen? Okay,
well these people who got rejected which by
the way, my group of individuals who were
in contact with my last episode of my
podcast they’re fine. I want to say this.
I’m talking about people who probably
didn’t have this information or people
who did not believe in the content of
that previous podcast and I’m going to
tell you this. We all suffer the
the temptation, we all went through it all, my
group that follow me, we were
fighting not to talk with our ex. I even make a
podcast about that how not to go back to
your ex on for Valentine’s and then the
quarantine it was hard because we were
afraid we were lonely we were very
vulnerable but we were strong because we
were together we make a big chain of
strain to have each other’s back and we
we made it through the worst time ever
and I want to thank you for being there
for me in those weekend moments so what
is gonna happen okay well what we can do
is this you already been broken your Rea
being rejected or already been gold
state horrible well this person that
play you probably play more people let’s
say ten people for being minimum and
probably that other person was playing
another ten people so it’s like a virus
very much look we’re gonna we’re gonna
treat this cheating thing like a virus
so more than likely if you are the
weakest link on that chain of cheating
they’re gonna try to get you back once
that other relationship didn’t work out
they’re gonna try to get you back
because you are weak and that’s the part
that I need you to pay a lot of
attention because if you go back there
oh my god that is gonna hurt even twice
as much and you don’t want to go there
if they have the courage not to talk to
you of the time you need them the most
which was at the end of the quarantine
at the end of the lockdown and we even
know right now we’re not out of the
danger of the covet and they’re
coronavirus and we still need to
preserve ourselves in our health and you
were risking yourself just to meet these
people to meet with these people and
then they
their lives to meet with other people
and they choose them instead of you I’m
sorry to say that but it’s the truth and
that’s why you’re here because we want
to hear the truth even when it’s painful
right and I’m not gonna they’re already
view outside I just don’t want
to see you suffer anymore it
kills me.
Well, it doesn’t kill me because I’m not
gonna die but it hurts me to see you
suffer so I just need you to be strong right now since you weren’t
strong the first time when we talk about
don’t fall for the quarantine texting
and you did and now you’re hurt but I’m
telling you this if you go back,
because she or he is gonna try to get you back
again. I need to tell you
this. Is gonna be worse. So what do you do?
Just put your mind into something that you like, if you like gardening go
back to gardening, if you like cooking go
back to cooking, if you like to workout.
You need to put your mind into something
that you weren’t before you find this
refuge. You use this person as some type
of a method for you to keep you calm
during quarantine and Okay let’s talk
about this, for a moment we’re not gonna
demonize that other person that gives you
their time because they also give you
their time to you when you needed them, you
were weak and you fail and you need to
be accountable for your actions. get it?
Anyways, you were warned is gonna hurt
and you did it anyway, right? Yes or no?
Yes, so this time is going to
be even harder because it’s like when
you were building your self-esteem,
in your world building your character
and you were finding yourself and boom
you got crushed you need to start all over
again. You need to get up just like every
fighter. Remember, it’s not how much you
give punches but how many punches you
take when you’re fighting and “That’s
life”. So, we are going thru
the same thing, this
quarantined and pandemic it’s bringing
out the best and the worst of people and
we have to keep moving forward with life
with our goals with our dreams with our
life expectations and we still need to
make a new concept of what love is
post-pandemic and the exodus of the quarantine lovers.
I hear you saying, how can you be in love with someone you never get to meet? I give it all and still was not enough for you to leave.
When the 2020 quarantine was over a lot of people were ghosted
one again by their exes so that’s even
worse. Why did it happen? I don’t know I
don’t have that explanation,
or the explanations of it is that there were so
many people with was so much time
you know. Anyway, you need to go back to do something that you like to
put your mind into it. On the other hand, those of us who were strong to keep going, we’re keeping our minds busy to stay all right.
There you have it, friends my name is
Shirley Henderson and I want to see you
succeed in every area of your life I am
on the side of humankind and see you
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Disclosure: This are my opinions and not a profesional advice.
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